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Football’s first ever transgender referee takes to the pitch for first time under new identity

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Football’s only transgender referee will take to the pitch on Sunday afternoon for the first time under her new identity.

Lucy Clark, 46, has been known as Nick in the world of soccer for years and admits being nervous about fans’ reaction tomorrow.

But she tells the Sunday Mirror: “I hope the world accepts me for the person I am.”

Happily married and with three children, Lucy adds: “I have kept this secret hidden away most of my life. Now is the time to be ME.

“I can appreciate people will be a bit shocked when I run on to the pitch.

“But I’m the same person. I will just look a bit different. It’ll be nice not to live in two different worlds and be me.

“I want to inspire others to be who they are.”

Lucy’s decision to live as a woman follows a 30-year gender struggle which pushed her to the brink.

Lucy Clark, who was known as Nick, has the backing of the Football Association (Image: Steve Bainbridge©2018)
On the pitch and making a point as referee Nick

Her amazing transition is fully backed by the Football Association.

In the first part of a remarkable interview, Lucy tells how:

  • Football saved her life as she ­struggled to become her true self, even attempting suicide.
  • Wife Avril is continuing to support her and will be at the first game.
  • She dreams of refereeing matches at a higher level.

Lucy, who works as a black cab driver and lives in Surrey, happily posed for pictures and clutched Avril’s hand as she told her story.

Avril has stood by Lucy since she told her, one drunken night 18 years ago, that she was a woman trapped in a man’s body.

They remain in love and believe their future as a couple remains as bright as ever.

They share make-up tips and enjoy clothes shopping together.

But as a semi-professional football referee, it is Lucy’s job to go about her work without being noticed.

And while family and close pals know she is transitioning, those in the macho world of football don’t – which leaves her plagued with doubt.

Lucy’s left hand, clasped in Avril’s, shakes as she talks openly for the first time about the future.

Smiling nervously, she says: “It’s going to be awkward.

Lucy and loving wife Avril clutch hands as they reveal emotional journey to the Sunday Mirror (Image: Sunday Mirror)

“Players I can deal with. I can just give red or yellow cards to them. It’s the fans – that’s where the issues could come.

“I’m preparing myself for the ­derogatory comments. I don’t want to lose my control and I don’t want to be putting complaints into clubs about the behaviour of their fans.

“I’m a bit concerned. If I’ve suddenly got 200 people shouting stuff about me I don’t know how I’ll react.

“But I am thick-skinned, you’ve got to be.

“We’re doing voice coaching but that’ll be interesting on the pitch.

“I still need a strong voice while reffing but I’m thinking how I can make the whistle talk more. But that’s not my game though, I’m vocal.”

Lucy reveals how doubts about her true identity first surfaced when she was a child. She goes on: “I knew something wasn’t quite right when I was seven.

“I didn’t feel like the others kids at my boys’ school. I yearned to be at the girls’ school with my sister.

“I didn’t want to do what boys did so I threw myself into football because that’s what a boy should do.”

Lucy in referee’s kit and ready for the game, complete with favourite pink whistle (Image: Steve Bainbridge©2018)

It was the love of the sport that came to Lucy’s rescue in her time of need. And it will lead her to changing history on Sunday.

She adds: “Some of my best friends don’t know. A referee friend popped around for a cup of tea this week. I had to get changed quick and put a baggy T-shirt on.

“No one chooses to be transgender. It’s not cool. Everyone who is wishes they weren’t, but I am who I am and this is the stick life has dealt me.”

Lucy’s life has been a tough one to navigate. In her teens she struggled to cope with the changes puberty made to her body and feelings that surfaced.

Questioning who she was, suicidal thoughts washed over her. And at 15 she tried to take her own life. She recalls: “I used to go to sleep and wish I’d never wake up.

“There used to be a big block of flats on the road where I lived. On more than one occasion I’d stand on the top of it and thought about ending it all.

“I took tablets and drank alcohol. I ended up having my stomach pumped. A ridiculously high percentage of transgender people attempt suicide. How many succeeded, we don’t know.”

Lucy Clark (46) is a qualified football referee who is in the process of transitioning to a female. Up until now she has always refereed games as a male but for the first this weekend she will be in charge of a game as a female. To go with Janine's interview. Photograph by Steve Bainbridge.
Clutching gold medal after charity run as Nick
Lucy, who works as a black cab driver and lives in Surrey, happily posed for pictures and clutched Avril’s hand as she told her story (Image: Steve Bainbridge©2018)

Lucy hopes that by talking more about the transgender issue fewer people will feel so lost and helpless.

“We are better now than 30 years ago and I hope it improves in the next 30 years. Me speaking out, hopefully, can make a difference,” she says.

Avril helped Lucy feel truly comfortable in who she was. The pair enjoy dressing up and going on nights out in London and Milton Keynes.

And during our interview Lucy grows in confidence simply by telling her story. She reveals the next step is gender reassignment surgery, explaining: “I’ve been on hormones for three years. Next year I’ll be having surgery. I don’t want facial feminisation. Luckily, I don’t have the Adam’s apple.

“Me and Avril are talking about make-up lessons. I have a contour kit but don’t know how to use it. We get our nails done together and go shopping. Avril steals my clothes.

“We have our own styles. She’ll see something I wear and go ‘I like that’. I’ve nicked a body suit. Avril wears Doc Martens, which I never wear.”

Of her tattoos, she says: “One is a phoenix rising from the ashes – a bit like me. The others are just flowers and colours I like.”

Lucy has quietly been part of the transgender community for 18 years and this year launched Trans Radio UK. She says, proudly: “It’s broadcasting to over 39 countries now, which is unbelievable.

“I can’t believe how quickly it’s grown.”

Lucy hopes that by talking more about the transgender issue fewer people will feel so lost and helpless (Image: Steve Bainbridge©2018)

For now, though, the focus is on football and her decision to go public has won the support of FA officials.

Lucy will initially officiate women’s matches but she hopes to move back into the men’s game.

She regularly officiated at 100 games a year in leagues including the Combined Counties, the Isthmian and the National Under 19.

The Football Association said in a statement today: “The FA fully supports Lucy and anyone else who wants to participate in football in their preferred gender.

“Football is For All and in 2014 The FA announced a policy, as well as an information guide distributed to all clubs, to encourage trans people to participate in football.”

Lucy, meanwhile, is determined that Sunday is the start of a remarkable new chapter in a story that will have a positive ending.

Her much-loved pink whistle makes a return for the game – a nod to the woman she’s always been.

She adds: “I am looking to the future and want to progress as a referee. I’d have loved to have got to the Premier League but am probably too old. It would take 10 years to get there and I’d be in my 50s.

“But I want to go up a few levels. The only thing that is changing is the name they put on the team sheet at the start of the match.

“When I blow that whistle today I can finally be myself. I’ve waited a lifetime for that.”

Kellie backs brave Lucy

It’s four years since Kellie Maloney told in the Sunday Mirror how she was transitioning from boxing promoter Frank to the woman she is today.

Now she is helping Lucy tell her story. Kellie, 65, says: “Lucy came to me for advice and I encouraged her to take control of her story.

“I’ve gone from someone who was frightened to come out in public to a confident woman.

“It’s a brave decision Lucy’s taken. She’s in a very male-dominated world like I was. The biggest fear I had was going to Millwall, but I was made to feel so welcome by their fans. I’m hoping Lucy gets the same reception when she goes out to ref her games. If people understand the struggle you’ve endured they support you.

“From this moment on she can stop being two people. She can go out and be Lucy and continue to do what she loves.”

 

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Osun police arrest three night guards over alleged murder of 40-year-old man

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A night guard at Ibuowo Estate, Okinni, Egbedore Local Government Area of Osun State, on Saturday, allegedly shot dead a 40-year-old man, Badmus Mohammed.

The guard, Rasaq Moshood, DAILY POST gathered, shot Mohammed, a tenant, who is popularly called Lasgidi dead with his dane gun.

His Landlord, Kazeem Jimoh told DAILY POST that he was at a bar with the deceased till midnight on Friday, before he was called on phone about his death.

According to Kazeem, his tenant was killed at the front of the house, while his door was left open.

“I and Kazeem were at a bar till past 12 when I left him.

“I didn’t sleep at home but I got a call around 1 a.m. that Lasgidi was killed by a guard. When i got home, I saw his door open, while his corpse was outside,” he said.

The Police spokesperson, SP Yemisi Opalola confirmed the incident.

She noted that three night guards have been arrested with their dane guns.

According to her, “one Babatunde Olumide, the Chairman of Ibuowo Estate Okinni reported at dada Estate Divisional Police Hqts., that their night guard, one Moshood Rasaq used his dane gun to shoot one Mohammed Badmus, aged 40 years and he died instantly.

“Suspect has been arrested, gun used has been recovered, while the corpse has been taken to UNIOSUN Teaching Hospital morgue for autopsy.”

Opalola added that the case had been transferred to the State Criminal Investigation Department (SCID) for further investigation.

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Chinese astronauts return to earth after six months in space

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Officials stand near the capsule of the Shenzhou-13 spacecraft after it returned to earth carrying three Chinese astronauts in China’s Inner Mongolia on April 16, 2022. STR / AFP

Three Chinese astronauts returned to Earth on Saturday after 183 days in space, ending China’s longest crewed mission as it continues its quest to become a major space power.

The Shenzhou-13 spacecraft was the latest mission in Beijing’s drive to rival the United States, after landing a rover on Mars and sending probes to the Moon.

Live footage from state broadcaster CCTV showed the capsule landing in a cloud of dust, with the ground crew who had kept clear of the landing site rushing in helicopters to reach the capsule.

The two men and one woman — Zhai Zhigang, Ye Guangfu and Wang Yaping — returned to Earth shortly before 10 am Beijing time (0200 GMT), after six months aboard the Tianhe core module of China’s Tiangong space station.

Ground crew applauded as the astronauts each took turns to report that they were in good physical condition.

Zhai was the first to emerge from the capsule roughly 45 minutes after the landing, waving and grinning at cameras as he was lifted by the ground crew into a specially designed chair before being bundled into a blanket.

“I’m proud of our heroic country,” Zhai said in an interview with CCTV shortly after leaving the capsule. “I feel extremely good.”

The trio originally launched in the Shenzhou-13 from China’s northwestern Gobi Desert last October, as the second of four crewed missions during 2021-2022 sent to assemble the country’s first permanent space station — Tiangong, which means “heavenly palace.”

Wang became the first Chinese woman to spacewalk last November, as she and her colleague Zhai installed space station equipment during a six-hour stint.

Mission commander Zhai, 55, is a former fighter pilot who performed China’s first spacewalk in 2008, while Ye is a People’s Liberation Army pilot.

The trio have completed two spacewalks, carried out numerous scientific experiments, set up equipment and tested technologies for future construction during their time in orbit.

The astronauts spent the past few weeks tidying up and preparing the cabin facilities and equipment for the crew of the incoming Shenzhou-14, expected to be launched in the coming months.

China’s previous record spaceflight mission length was set by last year’s Shenzhou-12 deployment, which lasted 92 days.

Six months will become the normal astronaut residence period aboard the Chinese space station, according to state broadcaster CCTV.

Space race

The world’s second-largest economy has poured billions into its military-run space programme, with hopes of having a permanently crewed space station by 2022 and eventually sending humans to the Moon.

The country has come a long way in catching up with the United States and Russia, whose astronauts and cosmonauts have decades of experience in space exploration.

But under Chinese President Xi Jinping, the country’s plans for its heavily-promoted “space dream” have been put into overdrive.

Besides a space station, Beijing is also planning to build a base on the Moon, and the country’s National Space Administration said it aims to launch a crewed lunar mission by 2029.

China has been excluded from the International Space Station since 2011 when the US banned NASA from engaging with the country.

While China does not plan to use its space station for global cooperation on the scale of the ISS, Beijing has said it is open to foreign collaboration although the scope of that cooperation is not yet clear.

The ISS is due for retirement after 2024, although NASA has said it could remain functional until 2030.

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Putin’s Russia finally invades Ukraine

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Black smoke rises from a military airport in Chuguyev near Kharkiv on February 24, 2022.(Photo by Aris Messinis / AFP)

Russian President Vladimir Putin announced a military operation in Ukraine on Thursday with explosions heard soon after across the country and its foreign minister warning a “full-scale invasion” was underway.

Weeks of intense diplomacy and the imposition of Western sanctions on Russia failed to deter Putin, who had massed between 150,000 and 200,000 troops along the borders of Ukraine.

“I have made the decision of a military operation,” Putin said in a surprise television announcement that triggered immediate condemnation from US President Joe Biden and sent global financial markets into turmoil.

Shortly after the announcement, explosions were heard in Ukraine’s capital, Kyiv, and several other cities, according to AFP correspondents.

Russian President Vladimir Putin speaks during his address to the nation at the Kremlin in Moscow on February 21, 2022. Alexey NIKOLSKY / Sputnik / AFP

 

Putin called on Ukrainian soldiers to lay down their arms and justified the operation by claiming the government was overseeing a “genocide” in the east of the country.

The Kremlin had earlier said rebel leaders in eastern Ukraine had asked Moscow for military help against Kyiv.

The extent of Thursday’s attacks was not immediately clear, but Ukraine Foreign Minister Dmytro Kuleba said the worst-case scenario was playing out.

“Putin has just launched a full-scale invasion of Ukraine. Peaceful Ukrainian cities are under strikes,” Kuleba tweeted.

“This is a war of aggression. Ukraine will defend itself and will win. The world can and must stop Putin. The time to act is now.”

Biden immediately warned of “consequences” for Russia and that there would be a “catastrophic loss of life and human suffering”.

NATO’s chief condemned Russia’s “reckless and unprovoked attack” on Ukraine.

Putin’s move came after Ukraine’s President Volodymyr Zelensky made an emotional appeal late on Wednesday night to Russians not to support a “major war in Europe”.

Speaking Russian, Zelensky said that the people of Russia were being lied to about Ukraine.

Zelensky said he had tried to call Putin but there was “no answer, only silence”, adding that Moscow now had around 200,000 soldiers near Ukraine’s borders.

Earlier on Wednesday the separatist leaders of Donetsk and Lugansk sent separate letters to Putin, asking him to “help them repel Ukraine’s aggression”, Putin’s spokesman Dmitry Peskov said.

The two letters were published by Russian state media and were both dated February 22.

Their appeals came after Putin recognised their independence and signed friendship treaties with them that include defence deals.

– ‘Moment of peril’ –

Putin had for weeks defied a barrage of international criticism over the crisis, with some Western leaders saying he was no longer rational.

His announcement of the military operation came ahead of a last-ditch summit involving European Union leaders in Brussels planned for Thursday.

The 27-nation bloc had also imposed sanctions on Russia’s defence minister Sergei Shoigu and high-ranking figures including the commanders of Russia’s army, navy and air force, another part of the wave of Western punishment after Putin sought to rewrite Ukraine’s borders.

The United Nations Security Council met late Wednesday for its second emergency session in three days over the crisis, with a personal plea there by UN Secretary-General Antonio Guterres to Putin going unheeded.

“President Putin, stop your troops from attacking Ukraine, give peace a chance, too many people have already died,” Guterres said.

The US ambassador to the United Nations, Linda Thomas-Greenfield, warned that an all-out Russian invasion could displace five million people, triggering a new European refugee crisis.

Before Putin’s announcement, Ukraine had urged its approximately three million citizens living in Russia to leave.

“We are united in believing that the future of European security is being decided right now, here in our home, in Ukraine,” President Zelensky said during a joint media appearance with the visiting leaders of Poland and Lithuania.

Western capitals said Russia had amassed 150,000 troops in combat formations on Ukraine’s borders with Russia, Belarus and Russian-occupied Crimea and on warships in the Black Sea.

Ukraine has around 200,000 military personnel, and could call up to 250,000 reservists.

Moscow’s total forces are much larger — around a million active-duty personnel — and have been modernised and re-armed in recent years.

 

– High cost of war –

But Ukraine has received advanced anti-tank weapons and some drones from NATO members. More have been promised as the allies try to deter a Russian attack or at least make it costly.

Shelling had intensified in recent days between Ukrainian forces and Russia-backed separatists — a Ukrainian soldier was killed on Wednesday, the sixth in four days — and civilians living near the front were fearful.

Dmitry Maksimenko, a 27-year-old coal miner from government-held Krasnogorivka, told AFP that he was shocked when his wife came to tell him that Putin had recognised the two Russian-backed separatist enclaves.

“She said: ‘Have you heard the news?’. How could I have known? There’s no electricity, never mind internet. I don’t know what is going to happen next, but to be honest, I’m afraid,” he said.

In a Russian village around 50 kilometres (30 miles) from the border, AFP reporters saw military equipment including rocket launchers, howitzers and fuel tanks mounted on trains stretching for hundreds of metres.

Russia has long demanded that Ukraine be forbidden from ever joining the NATO alliance and that US troops pull out from Eastern Europe.

Speaking to journalists, Putin on Tuesday set out a number of stringent conditions if the West wanted to de-escalate the crisis, saying Ukraine should drop its NATO ambition and become neutral.

Washington Wednesday announced sanctions on the Nord Stream 2 gas pipeline, which Germany had earlier effectively suspended by halting certification.

Australia, Britain, Japan and the European Union have all also announced sanctions.

 

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